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Grief isn\u2019t optional; it\u2019s inevitable and it can be debilitating.<\/strong> We discover that we’ve lost so much more than a loved one. We may feel utterly alone and wonder whether we will ever be okay again.<\/p>\n

\u201cGrief launches us on a strange new orbit, and for now, we\u2019re getting our bearings while the earth reels in an entirely different direction than we were used to.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

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Aubrey Sampson’s Story<\/h2>\n

Aubrey Sampson offers comfort and hope to those experiencing grief over the loss of a loved one. In her b<\/strong>ook, What We Find in the Dark,<\/em><\/a><\/strong> Aubrey writes about losing her best friend of over 20 years to cancer. Aubrey\u2019s journey of loss and grief is gripping, beautifully told, and relatable even if you have never lost someone you love. Through the honest sharing of her own experiences, the book evokes tears for her loss as well as our own.<\/p>\n

By simply telling her story, Aubrey comes alongside those who are grieving, and she comforts, guides, helps, and gently exhorts.<\/strong> (I find it curious to note that last sentence could be said of the Holy Spirit\u2019s role in our lives.)<\/p>\n

Comfort and Hope<\/h2>\n

Comfort<\/a> comes from knowing that others have been in this place before.<\/strong> They have felt these feelings, wrestled with these doubts, and they too have neglected reading their Bibles for a long time. Though every experience of grief is unique, we are not so alone as we feel.<\/p>\n

Aubrey\u2019s open sharing serves to normalize many of the experiences of grief we may otherwise question in our own experience. Many of her stories leave us exhaling a sigh of relief. We are not abnormal – our (unwanted) experiences are simply part of grief.<\/p>\n

Hope comes precisely because others have felt the way we do in grief, and they have journeyed on.<\/strong> From their stories comes the flicker of hope that though the night is long, it will not always be as dark. They have found treasures in the dark, and we may too.<\/p>\n

Lights in the Night<\/h2>\n

Aubrey also draws our attention to star-like lights that help us orient ourselves along the seemingly aimless path of grief. I love that she reassures us that we are not moving too slowly. She makes it clear that grief is a long, dark night, but not without glimmers of light, and we can see them if we will look for them.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe darkness makes us lean in and listen, the way a hushed silence does\u2026 The darkness demands we pay attention.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Her personal insights about God\u2019s hiddenness and the things that keep us \u201ctethered to God at midnight\u201d are priceless for those wondering why they can no longer feel God\u2019s presence. Aubrey shares her insights about anger and wrestling with God \u2013 a natural part of many people\u2019s journeys of grief. She also writes about her ambivalence toward making new friendships again \u2013 something which requires the courage to grieve again.<\/p>\n

Healing for the Heart<\/h2>\n

Aubrey\u2019s writing is beautifully crafted, with vivid metaphors and well-chosen words. Her prose reads like poetry, which touches the soul in an indelible way.<\/strong> The book is easy to read in that it is packed with story after story.<\/p>\n

Thanks to Aubrey, I feel better prepared to face the inevitable grief that comes with living in a fallen world. I also have a better idea of how to offer comfort and hope to those in grief.<\/p>\n

May you remember, when the night of grief descends on your soul, that you are not alone in your aloneness, and though the journey is long, there are treasures in the dark.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Read Also:<\/h2>\n

Comfort in Times of Suffering<\/a><\/p>\n

This Side of Perfect<\/a><\/p>\n

When Life Goes Off Plan<\/a><\/p>\n

Grieving in the Good Times<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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